If there is no impulse....there is nothing for you to do.
And when there is nothing for you to do....it is the time to let it all come to you...by being in the moment of doing nothing.
What does it mean?
It means that we need time to allow things to happen...once a friend of mine said when he was worried that...'This is the time when I just have to wait for the decision or the event to happen'.
We all know this feeling....just waiting for things to happen...right?
This waiting time is the time for us to feel our impulses or feel nothing.
Feeling nothing is an art....which when practiced will feel full of possibilities....what feels nothing is a feeling of pure fullness of possibilities....possibilites that can give us new ideas and new direction which we miss when we are trying to distract ourselves...because we have nothing to do.
So next time when you are in ....'nothing can be done' situation, sit back and really do nothing...feel, feel, feeeeel the blood pulsing in your veins.....feel the heartbeat...feel the twiches....feel the temperature.....and when you are getting agitated with this because you have so much to do....remind your 'mind' that 10 mins of 'feeling' is not going to make any difference to your schedule....it will only 'upgrade' you....so now the mind is in sync with your body.....and then experience the 'oneness' of all....and feel the luxury of your existance...and then you don't care if you have a lot to do...you know you deserve this moment more than all the moments put together....which will give you the power to start something new....again!
Now you have a new impulse....and now you have something to do...which is being created by YOU!
Ofcourse you can do this everyday....and create something new everyday.....you know you can do that...you know you are an unlimited power.....you only need to FEEL this power. Right?....And now you know, how to FEEL this :)
Situations change in life but it is our attitude towards it, that decides what will be the next situation that we will encounter. This blog is an understanding of the self through me, to you from a place that is mutual:)
Monday, July 26, 2010
Tuesday, July 20, 2010
Tuning vibration.....
You cannot cover up your vibration with words or action, your vibration is always dominant.
We know this.....but we usually forget to tune our vibration and try to cover it up by impressive words or dynamic actions.
Yet no matter what we do....our vibration is stronger and it says what it says....without words or action.
So how do we bring our vibration in tune with what we want....?
Just by changing the WAY WE FEEL....will change the vibration......and the way we feel....is affected by the WAY WE THINK......
Simple isin't it?
One needs to change vibration slowly....you cannot jump vibrations from extreme sadness to extreme happiness.....you will need to go through all the stages in-between.......that means if you are sad....you need to THINK the next best thing that can happen which is very close to that sadness.....and when you FEEL that.... follow a thought that is making you again feel a BIT better.....and on and on......
It takes some deliberate practice......but I will never understand why will anyone not practice that? Do you?
Just like you tune a radio.....you tune it step by step, from one signal to the next......
Only KNOWING how to tune yourself....will make it faster...and in no time...you will be more and more tuned in........ faster.
So.....I hope I have tuned you a little bit now;)
We know this.....but we usually forget to tune our vibration and try to cover it up by impressive words or dynamic actions.
Yet no matter what we do....our vibration is stronger and it says what it says....without words or action.
So how do we bring our vibration in tune with what we want....?
Just by changing the WAY WE FEEL....will change the vibration......and the way we feel....is affected by the WAY WE THINK......
Simple isin't it?
One needs to change vibration slowly....you cannot jump vibrations from extreme sadness to extreme happiness.....you will need to go through all the stages in-between.......that means if you are sad....you need to THINK the next best thing that can happen which is very close to that sadness.....and when you FEEL that.... follow a thought that is making you again feel a BIT better.....and on and on......
It takes some deliberate practice......but I will never understand why will anyone not practice that? Do you?
Just like you tune a radio.....you tune it step by step, from one signal to the next......
Only KNOWING how to tune yourself....will make it faster...and in no time...you will be more and more tuned in........ faster.
So.....I hope I have tuned you a little bit now;)
Monday, July 19, 2010
Just go where YOU are going.....
It's no point looking back....go on and on....with the feeling that things are falling into place even if seems rough sometimes....you know....YOU ALWAYS KNOW....
You only have to stop and listen to your HEARTBEAT....for a while....and you know the path......
There is no end....so why even try to put an end.....we are here for the experience....whatever experience we have, we are expanding and making the path clearer....
We all have our own path....we do not need to follow.....when we know this.....all the experiences in life start to make sense and we come into PEACE with our own destiny which we have deliberately created....and we know where we want to take it...next.
So simple......just go where YOU are going.....
You only have to stop and listen to your HEARTBEAT....for a while....and you know the path......
There is no end....so why even try to put an end.....we are here for the experience....whatever experience we have, we are expanding and making the path clearer....
We all have our own path....we do not need to follow.....when we know this.....all the experiences in life start to make sense and we come into PEACE with our own destiny which we have deliberately created....and we know where we want to take it...next.
So simple......just go where YOU are going.....
Monday, July 12, 2010
Some questions!
1- What do you think about why we are born here on this Earth?
We are born here for the sheer reason to have all the experiences we desire and enjoy them to the fullest.
2- What do you think that each person should do to live better?
If a person can think pleasant thoughts in the midst of problems....they will live much better.
3- What is the most important thing that anyone can think about?
The most important thing that anyone can think about is to think and feel how great they are.
4- Where is the world moving towards in these times?
The world is moving towards the realisation that we are more than just these bodies and that we can design our own lives.
5- Do you think every person should be responsible for themselves or depend on other institutions?
It is better to take the responsibility in our own hands and create a better life....rather than depend on institutions.
I asked a friend these questions....and thought I should also answer them....I would also like anyone who reads this to answer their version ......I belive there is no right or wrong answer....It is just a perspective of a person from where that person is looking from.
We are born here for the sheer reason to have all the experiences we desire and enjoy them to the fullest.
2- What do you think that each person should do to live better?
If a person can think pleasant thoughts in the midst of problems....they will live much better.
3- What is the most important thing that anyone can think about?
The most important thing that anyone can think about is to think and feel how great they are.
4- Where is the world moving towards in these times?
The world is moving towards the realisation that we are more than just these bodies and that we can design our own lives.
5- Do you think every person should be responsible for themselves or depend on other institutions?
It is better to take the responsibility in our own hands and create a better life....rather than depend on institutions.
I asked a friend these questions....and thought I should also answer them....I would also like anyone who reads this to answer their version ......I belive there is no right or wrong answer....It is just a perspective of a person from where that person is looking from.
Saturday, July 10, 2010
Stop!
Today is a very hot day in Madrid and I was out and about, tried to be out of the sun....but couldn't avoid the time while walking towards the metro...which was enough to feel the glaring sun on my body....and I remembered the words of a friend saying 'avoid the sun, stay in doors', only if I had a choice like he has...may be I could have.
But we all have different situations to feel some discomfort in different ways....my objective is to find a thought that will lead me to feel good from the situation that is uncomfortable.
I came home and felt tired...so took a nap and found that I had migrane...because of the sudden temperature difference that my body cannot handle much.....had coffee....had my tablet...but still didn't help much.
May be the underlining reason was some thing alse.......what I really wanted to do was HOW TO FEEL GOOD from where I am now.
So first....I sat to write my blog....but was not happening smoothy....so I stopped.......stopped everything.....not even trying to concentrate on my breathing....just being neutral......I realised that the moment you stop resisting....in everyway......we start to function again.
We all have varied situations in life where we can go bonkers...and wonder why....and the solution is......STOP!
Stop the monkey mind for some time....How do we do that, from where we are now?
The best way is not to give any importance to what we are thinking in those moments...which can feel like eternity...but it is only a while....may be just 1 or 2 minutes...you can then actually observe how much we are controlled by this conditioned computer....but again...not giving any importance to it.....this is what we do in meditation...and I belive that we can do it where ever we are when ever we can.....we do not have to have a condition to meditate....the word meditation has been misused and we fall into another trap of following our mind...which is going back to square one.
Many times people ask me how to meditate....and I do not like to explain much because it is a process of not doing anything......Want to just try it?
Do not shut your thoughts...Do not try to do a certain ritual....How much time? not important!.......just feel what you feel.....and do not analyise your feelings.
It might make you feel good or not (remember no analysing)......but it will definately reset your computer...so you can start to function again.
This is what I did and I feel good!....... Feel me?
Friday, July 9, 2010
Diversity
Diversity.
Hello friends.
Today I am going to convince you that diversity is a good thing. We are all different yet we are one somewhere, because we are getting affected by others.
I am sure you all have been through it and gotten angry and wondered why people are not like you. You must have thought sometimes that this world would be so much better if people understood the way I work or if they were like me….. Right?
Well in my experience….I was the same, and was really annoyed that I have to adjust where ever I go.
I am from india with a very strong traditional Indian base and I was brought up to be the opposite of who I am now….
Well…. we start our lives being someone alse, by the time we are middle age we realize we have to start being ourselves.
After living in India for 33 years I visited UK first and I noticed and felt embarrased by the number of time my mother-in-law said please and thank you…. to me….In India ….usually the opposite happens.
The Christmas cold was another shocking thing…I remember thinking…How can people tolerate living in such a climate? Anyway I didn’t knew then that one can get used to anything eventually.
I lived in Germany for few months and I realized that people are very serious …but everything seems to be in order, which was a surprise for me because in my country order is not followed.
Also I realized in Germany that people are just so cautious and aware of every disaster that can happen and take precautions before it can happen….which again was shocking because people in my country usually depend on God to take care of disasters.
Well I have lived in Spain longer than any other European country and I landed in Lanzarote first. It was beautiful…I felt free…but after a few years I realized I have nothing much to do and people just don’t socialize enough…..and there were no metros or proper buses so I needed to drive…..and to get an European drivers licence I needed to take the exam in Spanish…and I realized that it was almost impossible to learn Spanish on that level….so another diverse problem.
Anyway……Madrid has been the best place I have lived so far…there are things that I don’t like here but most of the things are pleasant to me in this city….and it is here I realized that diversity is good.
We need to be different…every place needs to be different….or also life would be so boring….there would be no adventure no expansion or stimulation in life.
I can see that more and more people live in different countries than they were born into…and they are realizing the diversity…..I see a time where people can live among one another in a variety of personalities and a variety of every other kind of orientations.
I see a world of such diversity that provide us strength and basis for expansion.
I see a world where in our differences we find our true strengths.
I no longer see limitations and lack.
I see that I am free to be as I can be, because I think the thoughts that give me the resonance of that freedom, and that I am no longer going to ask the impossible of the world to come into alignment with I want. I don’t want world alignment, I want diversity.
The diversity is the basis of that which we are becoming.
The only place where one needs alignment or the only place where one needs to resonate with is we ourselves and our own dreams.
Diversity is only making us realize that everything is possible.
Hello friends.
Today I am going to convince you that diversity is a good thing. We are all different yet we are one somewhere, because we are getting affected by others.
I am sure you all have been through it and gotten angry and wondered why people are not like you. You must have thought sometimes that this world would be so much better if people understood the way I work or if they were like me….. Right?
Well in my experience….I was the same, and was really annoyed that I have to adjust where ever I go.
I am from india with a very strong traditional Indian base and I was brought up to be the opposite of who I am now….
Well…. we start our lives being someone alse, by the time we are middle age we realize we have to start being ourselves.
After living in India for 33 years I visited UK first and I noticed and felt embarrased by the number of time my mother-in-law said please and thank you…. to me….In India ….usually the opposite happens.
The Christmas cold was another shocking thing…I remember thinking…How can people tolerate living in such a climate? Anyway I didn’t knew then that one can get used to anything eventually.
I lived in Germany for few months and I realized that people are very serious …but everything seems to be in order, which was a surprise for me because in my country order is not followed.
Also I realized in Germany that people are just so cautious and aware of every disaster that can happen and take precautions before it can happen….which again was shocking because people in my country usually depend on God to take care of disasters.
Well I have lived in Spain longer than any other European country and I landed in Lanzarote first. It was beautiful…I felt free…but after a few years I realized I have nothing much to do and people just don’t socialize enough…..and there were no metros or proper buses so I needed to drive…..and to get an European drivers licence I needed to take the exam in Spanish…and I realized that it was almost impossible to learn Spanish on that level….so another diverse problem.
Anyway……Madrid has been the best place I have lived so far…there are things that I don’t like here but most of the things are pleasant to me in this city….and it is here I realized that diversity is good.
We need to be different…every place needs to be different….or also life would be so boring….there would be no adventure no expansion or stimulation in life.
I can see that more and more people live in different countries than they were born into…and they are realizing the diversity…..I see a time where people can live among one another in a variety of personalities and a variety of every other kind of orientations.
I see a world of such diversity that provide us strength and basis for expansion.
I see a world where in our differences we find our true strengths.
I no longer see limitations and lack.
I see that I am free to be as I can be, because I think the thoughts that give me the resonance of that freedom, and that I am no longer going to ask the impossible of the world to come into alignment with I want. I don’t want world alignment, I want diversity.
The diversity is the basis of that which we are becoming.
The only place where one needs alignment or the only place where one needs to resonate with is we ourselves and our own dreams.
Diversity is only making us realize that everything is possible.
Tuesday, July 6, 2010
We are unlimited
The moments we think and belive we are limited by society, money, power, relationships etc........we are.
The moments we think and believe we are unlimited........we open new doors.
But what's the ratio of these moments......yes you are right......you need to CONSCIOUSLY be in the part that you want.
Make it a habit to be in that part first...and then you will start believing.
Once you start believing......it gets easier.
It takes a while....and our minds get angry, because of the change in our thought patterns in the face of problems, but it is worth it. Actually more than worth it.
Again if you start believing you are unlimited....you will start to see a bigger you, a grand version that you would be surprised was inside you and you didn't know.
BECAUSE YOU ARE REALLY UNLIMITED.
The moments we think and believe we are unlimited........we open new doors.
But what's the ratio of these moments......yes you are right......you need to CONSCIOUSLY be in the part that you want.
Make it a habit to be in that part first...and then you will start believing.
Once you start believing......it gets easier.
It takes a while....and our minds get angry, because of the change in our thought patterns in the face of problems, but it is worth it. Actually more than worth it.
Again if you start believing you are unlimited....you will start to see a bigger you, a grand version that you would be surprised was inside you and you didn't know.
BECAUSE YOU ARE REALLY UNLIMITED.
Monday, July 5, 2010
Never stop smiling.
Never stop smiling, even when you are sad, because you never know who is
falling in love with your smile.
This is what we are inside.....we are smiling, but we cannot feel that smile because our computerised mind is ruling us in that moment.
William Blake said- We are lead to believe a lie, when we see with and not through the eye, that was born in the night, to perish in the night, while the soul slept, in the beams of light.
Who we really are is always at ease with itself.....always smiling.
So.....Today, give a stranger one of your smiles. It might be the only sunshine he sees all day.
Sunday, July 4, 2010
Internal change.
There are so many things to put down...regarding the 'who am I' knowledge that I can bombard you with too much information....but....relax......things can be either simple or complicated....depending on where our attention is in this moment....right?
Every time I have a challenge....just reminding myself of 'who I am' makes it so simple to overcome that challenge....amazing!
So here it is....we are much more than we think we are......we are more than our bodies, mind and even thoughts......put together.
We are mentally seperate from others, but energetically all one.....we are the creators of our own life.....we are the power that we are looking for......we are the only one thing that we are constantly serching but cannot find.......we are what we finally want.
Simple?....or complicated?
Well where is your attention?.....It's in the mind ofcourse....but the mind is just a tiny, tiny, tiny....part of our self....so if we look at ourself from that perspective....we can never know who we are....because it's like looking at one site on the internet and thinking you know the whole internet and there is nothing more to learn.
Before we can even grasp the idea of who we really are we need to go through some huge internal attitude changes of ourself.....we need to activate our qualites of forgiveness, activate surrender, activate trust, activate love...and on and on......because when you really find who you really are.....you will have so much 'loving power' inside......it will burn everything out.... and you might just think that you are going nuts.
Every time I have a challenge....just reminding myself of 'who I am' makes it so simple to overcome that challenge....amazing!
So here it is....we are much more than we think we are......we are more than our bodies, mind and even thoughts......put together.
We are mentally seperate from others, but energetically all one.....we are the creators of our own life.....we are the power that we are looking for......we are the only one thing that we are constantly serching but cannot find.......we are what we finally want.
Simple?....or complicated?
Well where is your attention?.....It's in the mind ofcourse....but the mind is just a tiny, tiny, tiny....part of our self....so if we look at ourself from that perspective....we can never know who we are....because it's like looking at one site on the internet and thinking you know the whole internet and there is nothing more to learn.
Before we can even grasp the idea of who we really are we need to go through some huge internal attitude changes of ourself.....we need to activate our qualites of forgiveness, activate surrender, activate trust, activate love...and on and on......because when you really find who you really are.....you will have so much 'loving power' inside......it will burn everything out.... and you might just think that you are going nuts.
Saturday, July 3, 2010
Who am I?
'Who am I' is a blog to understand 'Who you are'.
From time to time we have questions that remain unanswered, but we carry on with life without giving much thought, because we think there are other important things to do and think.
I agree there are in that immediate moment...this is what we think...but in time the number of questions increase and we start to get fustrated with these questions....like why are we here on this Earth? or What on Earth am I doing here? or Is this ever going to end? or when will I have peace at last? or Is there really a happy ending?....and on and on.
In scientific terms they say that if you understand the information contained in just any one cell of your body...you will understand the functions and disfunctions of whole body.
Exactly in the same way I feel that if you understand 'who you really are' you will understand the entire functions and the disfunctions of life.
From time to time we have questions that remain unanswered, but we carry on with life without giving much thought, because we think there are other important things to do and think.
I agree there are in that immediate moment...this is what we think...but in time the number of questions increase and we start to get fustrated with these questions....like why are we here on this Earth? or What on Earth am I doing here? or Is this ever going to end? or when will I have peace at last? or Is there really a happy ending?....and on and on.
In scientific terms they say that if you understand the information contained in just any one cell of your body...you will understand the functions and disfunctions of whole body.
Exactly in the same way I feel that if you understand 'who you really are' you will understand the entire functions and the disfunctions of life.
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